Xu Kai's 3-Year-Old Affair with Zhao Qing Still Not Over – Actress Xu Lisha Reveals Herself as the Main Girlfriend, Posts Bed Photos Accusing Him of Cheating

Xu Kai and Tian Xiwwei’s historical drama Midnight Return premiered on the 18th, topping the online drama popularity charts for three consecutive days. Just as viewers were preparing to ship the on-screen couple, Xu Kai was exposed for having a real girlfriend — minor actress Xu Lisha, who previously appeared in New Life Begins. Alleged chat records between the two leaked online, showing Xu Kai transferring 5200 RMB (about 3061 MYR) to dote on his girlfriend, and also sweetly saying he’d wash fruit and cook for her. In response, Xu Kai’s agency boss Yu Zheng angrily slammed the rumors as “fake news, police have been notified.” However, the story took an unexpected turn when Xu Lisha subsequently posted: “I am not Xu Kai’s current girlfriend; I broke up with Xu Kai at the end of 2022 after he was photographed checking into a hotel with Zhao Qing.”

She posted several private photos, including Xu Kai smoking, lying on the bed playing with his phone, and the two holding hands. She accused Xu Kai of cheating, retorting, “Surely I’m not going to get arrested for being cheated on and insulted just because I was in a relationship?”

Early this morning, rumors of Xu Kai and Xu Lisha dating circulated on Weibo. When a fan messaged Xu Lisha to ask, she directly admitted, “I am the girlfriend,” and also revealed that the manager knew about it. Xu Kai once said they could go public, but announcing it would affect her and her family.

She didn’t shy away from liking Xu Kai’s promotional posts for Midnight Return and even referenced Xu Kai’s Weibo username “Xu Kai soso” by posting the song “I Love You So.”

Fans also dug up her alternate account, where chat records were posted showing the boyfriend considerately saying, “There’s fruit in the fridge, I’ll wash it if you want to eat,” with her coyly replying, “I want to eat your cooking,” and the boyfriend responding, “When I’m done, I’ll cook for you.” Both her accounts once showed off the same dress, and a friend even commented, “xk (referring to Xu Kai) has good taste.” However, some doubted the veracity, asking, “Nowadays, a few screenshots make you a girlfriend? At least give us a photo together,” and “This is too fake, show me some real evidence.”

This morning, Xu Lisha responded to Yu Zheng and to public skepticism: “From now on, every word I say is true, but I’m afraid Kaikai can’t handle it,” and “??? The biggest scandal of 2025 is here, guys. I’m not Xu Kai’s current girlfriend. I broke up with Xu Kai at the end of 2022 because he was caught in a hotel with Zhao Qing. I will gradually reveal the full story to everyone.”

In December 2022, Xu Kai and junior colleague Zhao Qing were photographed on a sweet date, holding hands in the street, and later entering a hotel together for the night. At the time, agency boss Yu Zheng commented, “Top tier actors are human too,” indirectly acknowledging Xu Kai’s romance. But a week later, Yu Zheng said Xu Kai was “single,” leading netizens to guess that Xu Kai and Zhao Qing ended things after being exposed, or possibly continued in secret.

Unexpectedly, just as Xu Kai’s new show aired, Xu Lisha declared herself the girlfriend who was “cheated on” at the time, posting many photos from a girlfriend’s perspective with the statement: “All these years, I never thought of exposing Xu Kai. Even when his fans asked me, I said I didn’t know him.” Some netizens questioned her timing: “Why didn’t you reveal this in 2022, but only now? The other actors in Midnight Return are the real victims.” Still, many supported her in calling out the cheating male star.

Source: Apple Daily News Network