44-year-old Chinese actress Sun Feifei recently admitted to her divorce and went on to reveal bizarre behavior from her ex-husband. Not only did he insist on a paternity test while still arguing there was a 0.01% chance the child wasn’t his, he also pushed all financial responsibilities onto her, fantasized that she was having affairs with various men, forbade any mention that he was 15 years older than her, and even accused her of causing his father’s death. Sun Feifei lamented, “My marriage was the most tragic role I’ve ever played.” Netizens comforted her, saying she should find someone decent and kind if she remarries. She replied: “I don’t dare to remarry. It’s too scary.”
In June 2014, Sun Feifei was photographed at the Beijing Civil Affairs Bureau registering her marriage. Media reports stated the groom was Jack Shi (Shi Hong), a Chinese-American who was a director at Lenovo at the time and founded his own tech company in 2017. Sun Feifei revealed she became pregnant before marriage. Though her ex encouraged her to keep the baby, he later claimed the child was not his. Even when the child was eight months old and could call him ‘Dad’, he still looked on in disgust and never held the child. To save the marriage, she proactively suggested a paternity test, which proved a “99.99% likelihood of paternity”, but he still refused to acknowledge the child.
In June 2014, Sun Feifei was photographed at the Beijing Civil Affairs Bureau registering her marriage. Media reports stated the groom was Jack Shi (Shi Hong), a Chinese-American who was a director at Lenovo at the time and founded his own tech company in 2017. Sun Feifei revealed she became pregnant before marriage. Though her ex encouraged her to keep the baby, he later claimed the child was not his. Even when the child was eight months old and could call him ‘Dad’, he still looked on in disgust and never held the child. To save the marriage, she proactively suggested a paternity test, which proved a “99.99% likelihood of paternity”, but he still refused to acknowledge the child.
She has previously used her own experience to warn women never to have children before marriage, as it becomes a means for men to control them. She recalled that while she was three months pregnant, her ex-husband didn’t buy her so much as a raisin, claiming he knew she had no way to leave. Some netizens questioned, “Why didn’t you complain to his family?” She explained she actually did: since her ex’s mother had passed away, his aunt acted as her stand-in mother-in-law. But when she tried to confide in the aunt, the latter exploded over the phone: “Impossible! Are all you people in the arts always so dramatic?” Sun Feifei said she was so shocked her tears dried up, and as she touched her pregnant belly, realized she couldn’t rely on her ex’s family.
However, she said her father-in-law was the one who cared for her most in the family. Now, with her ex blaming her for his father’s death, she is not shy about exposing his dark secrets. When she married in, her father-in-law was 80 and had suffered three strokes, so she never dared to complain to him. After giving birth, she suggested bringing her father-in-law, who lived with her brother-in-law, to stay with them in Beijing for a while. To her surprise, the father-in-law arrived alone without his caretaker, and her husband was often away socializing, leaving her solely responsible for his care. One day, she drove her ex and father-in-law to church and, shortly after leaving, received a call from her husband: “Dad is not doing well.” She rushed back, took her father-in-law to the hospital, but both hospitals were full. She called a doctor friend for help and finally secured a bed in a high-level ward. Unexpectedly, her brother-in-law arrived from Fuzhou and immediately questioned why he couldn’t stay in a regular ward since the high-level ward cost hundreds of RMB per day. Stranger still, after the father-in-law’s condition stabilized and he returned to Fuzhou, the brother-in-law fired the caretaker; two or three years later, the father-in-law passed away. She was furious that her ex blamed her for his father’s death and spread this to everyone in his social circle in America, saying: “If I truly had anything to do with it, there should be a criminal investigation so the police can look into it.”
However, she said her father-in-law was the one who cared for her most in the family. Now, with her ex blaming her for his father’s death, she is not shy about exposing his dark secrets. When she married in, her father-in-law was 80 and had suffered three strokes, so she never dared to complain to him. After giving birth, she suggested bringing her father-in-law, who lived with her brother-in-law, to stay with them in Beijing for a while. To her surprise, the father-in-law arrived alone without his caretaker, and her husband was often away socializing, leaving her solely responsible for his care. One day, she drove her ex and father-in-law to church and, shortly after leaving, received a call from her husband: “Dad is not doing well.” She rushed back, took her father-in-law to the hospital, but both hospitals were full. She called a doctor friend for help and finally secured a bed in a high-level ward. Unexpectedly, her brother-in-law arrived from Fuzhou and immediately questioned why he couldn’t stay in a regular ward since the high-level ward cost hundreds of RMB per day. Stranger still, after the father-in-law’s condition stabilized and he returned to Fuzhou, the brother-in-law fired the caretaker; two or three years later, the father-in-law passed away. She was furious that her ex blamed her for his father’s death and spread this to everyone in his social circle in America, saying: “If I truly had anything to do with it, there should be a criminal investigation so the police can look into it.”