Huang Shengyi's Mother Has a Strong Personality, Her Way of Speaking is Suffocating

"Star Girl" Huang Shengyi participated in the variety show "Goodbye Lover 4" with her ex-husband Yang Zi last year, which attracted a lot of discussion. This year, she appeared in another variety show "Is It Daughter or Mother 2" with her mother Deng Chuanli. The show recently premiered, and unexpectedly, Huang Shengyi became the focus again. The reason was a quarrel between the mother and daughter over "hiring a worker," with the mother showing a strong personality, firmly stating that they did not need a worker. Her way of speaking made netizens feel suffocated, calling her a terrifying mother.

During the show, Huang Shengyi suggested hiring a helper to manage the housework so that her mother wouldn't have to work so hard. However, Huang's mother felt it was unnecessary, insisting, "I don't want anyone touching the things I've organized." Despite this, Huang Shengyi stuck to her opinion, which angered her mother. This led to her mother switching to a blend of English and Chinese in the argument. From her mother's perspective, her daily life involved simple tasks like having a drink or cooking, and she believed there wasn't much to do. She viewed the request as something Huang Shengyi needed: "Is it you who needs this or me? If you need it, then it's something you need when you're here." She also felt that since Huang Shengyi moved back home, there had been more things and rubbish: "When you come home, you order me around, that's how it is! We usually don't have any rubbish, but in the few days you've been here, there's been more."

Every time Huang Shengyi says something, her mother counters, as her mother insists on maintaining a strong sense of order in her life, not allowing others to disrupt it. In the end, Huang Shengyi used hunger as an excuse and stopped discussing the matter.

Additionally, during an interview with the program team, Huang's mother's strong personality was further displayed. When asked if Huang Shengyi could make her own decisions growing up, she replied without hesitation: "Before university, we made all the decisions. (Do you think she liked these decisions?) Interests can be cultivated. (Did she accept them?) She had no choice but to accept them, the decision-making power was with me."

In fact, Huang's mother's strong personality inevitably relates to her status as a representative of successful women of the old era. She graduated from the Chinese Department of East China Normal University in Shanghai and worked as a reporter and editor at the "Xinmin Evening News." She also visited the United States and published several articles. Huang Shengyi states, "In my mother's era, she was probably an idol to many people. In her field, she received almost all the honors she could get, and naturally, she brought the personality she had at work into her personal life."

Source: HK01