Big S had multiple health issues, having revealed that she suffered from mitral valve prolapse and had a seizure-induced hypoxic coma before giving birth. She would often catch colds; she had repeatedly shared her last wishes with friends, asking that three things be done at her farewell ceremony. At the time, her friends didn't take it seriously, but now that she has suddenly passed away, thinking of her last wishes brings tears to their eyes.
Big S expressed her wishes several times to her friends while she was alive, "My ideal farewell should be joyful and happy, everyone should drink my favorite champagne, eat delicious food, and no one should cry when they come!" Her friends initially thought she was joking, but now, with her unexpected passing, remembering her wishes makes them quite emotional.
However, after Big S's passing, it's impossible for the S family to hold such a joyful farewell. Moreover, the ceremony is a way of saying goodbye to her, an emotional outlet. Hence, her friends and family have discussed organizing a public memorial service, allowing her fans to send her off in a calm and peaceful manner.
Source: Appledaily News